relationships

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#coherentism #todo

shittiness is the easy way out
- Introspection and growth is hard. It’s so much easier to lash out than it is to think through your issues. It’s so much easier to hang out with shitty people than build meaningful relationships with people who care.
relationship death by a thousand cuts
- Relationships often have multitudes of tiny stressors that are inconsequential, but build over time into blowout fights if they aren't taken care of
death of a relationship
- death relationships
attack the action, not the person
- If you are having a fight with someone in a relationship, you should treat it as the two of you versus the problem, instead of you versus them. Does your partner want to eat spicy food and only cooks that? Find a solution that makes the both of you happy instead of trying to “win” over them.